
Emotions on Same-Sex Marriage Run High
Emotions run high on issue of same-sex unionsThe marriage puzzleThe Stockton Record
April 12, 2009 6:00 AM Sometime in June, the California Supreme Court is expected to make a ruling on the validity of Proposition 8, the same-sex marriage ban passed by voters in November.
This will be the court's second look at the issue, the first being a 4-3 ruling upholding the right of same-sex couples to marry. That May ruling was followed by a vigorous campaign by same-sex marriage opponents. Their effort resulted in Proposition 8.
Voter passage of the initiative triggered another court challenge, this one with anti-Proposition 8 groups arguing that the ballot measure constituted an impermissible constitutional revision.
Back and forth. Back and forth. And here we are, waiting again on the state's highest court.
California is not aloneNot every state is waiting, though. Massachusetts and Connecticut have legalized same-sex marriage. In Iowa, a unanimous state Supreme Court ruled last week that "the exclusion of gay and lesbian people from the institution of civil marriage does not substantially further any important governmental objective."
In other words, it's none of the state's business who is married to whom except when prohibitions violate the equal protection requirements of law.
Then came Vermont the next day and a legislative vote to override Gov. Jim Douglas' veto of a bill legalizing same-sex marriage. And that day also saw the District of Columbia Council give preliminary approval to a bill that would require the city to recognize same-sex marriages performed elsewhere, something New York already does.
New Hampshire and New Jersey have bills to legalize same-sex marriage before their legislatures.
Equal protectionMost of the court rulings and legislative arguments have revolved around the issues of civil rights and equal protection. In fact, when California's high court ruled last year, it cited a 1948 state Supreme Court ruling lifting the ban on interracial marriages.
The issue, involving deeply held beliefs on both sides, is not going away. Gay rights court rulings provoke hysterical responses that the courts are violating the will of the people, that activist judges are attempting to legislate rather than adjudicate and that court interference in such matters has no place in a democracy.
Of course, that claim was settled by the John Marshall court in 1807, the first time a court ruled something unconstitutional. That precedent stuck and is a hallowed part of our system of checks and balances. Brown v. Board of Education would not have happened had there not been a Marbury v. Madison somewhere in our judicial history.
There are 29 states, California being one of them, that have approved constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage. There is the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which was passed overwhelmingly by the House and Senate and signed into law in 1996 by President Bill Clinton.
All of this, certainly if same-sex marriage advocates continue to gain momentum, someday will fall away. If or when it does, it will change the civil definition of marriage to something like the union between two people. Marriage in this sense is a legally binding contract. Some say marriage will be reduced to nothing more than a contract.
Tradition, religion will standThat argument is spurious. Cultural tradition and religious doctrine will not fall away. Marriage is something much more, to many a divine covenant. That understanding of marriage should not be simply cast aside, no legislation or court ruling should require any religion to officiate at or even recognize any marriage that violates its tenets. The First Amendment stands in defense of that wall of separation.
By the same token, no religion or group should presume veto power over how others choose to lead their lives, excepting choices that do damage to others. In that case, the secular state also has interests.
Same-sex marriage is an issue that is deeply divisive. No matter what law is passed or what courts rule, those divisions likely will remain. But some of the arguments we hear today are strikingly similar to those heard during the civil rights era, when the doctrine of "separate but equal" gave way to the acknowledgement that separate is "inherently unequal."
That acknowledgement is at the core of the same-sex marriage debate.